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Should I tell my best guy friend how I feel even though he has his eyes on another girl?

Should I tell my best guy friend how I feel even though he has his eyes on another girl? Topic: How to write a letter to your boy crush
July 17, 2019 / By Jamie
Question: I have a guy friend of two year who I have strong feelings for, but he doesn't know this (we are juniors in college, btw). i have wanted to tell him how i feel for literally a year and a half, but always felt like it was the wrong time or i chickened out. well we are both studying abroad at different cities in europe for the semester and recently took a weekend trip together. during the trip i was planning to tell him how i feel about him, until i found out he is becoming more serious with a girl in his program. they arent dating yet and i dont know how they could keep it up after the semester since they live on different sides of the US, so i wasn't too crushed by that news. he said he things are very slowly getting more serious with this girl but ive known him two years and she has known him 2 months, so i dont know if i should say anything anyway. i was just wondering if it would be inappropriate to tell him how i feel now, either in a letter or over the phone. i just want him to know because he is so sweet and i really want to get this off my chest. part of me feels like he liked me for awhile because we have madeout twice, but i always just treat him like a brother and never initiated any sort of physical contact or flirted. so now i think he may just think i see him as a friend. but maybe not. either way i still want him to know how i feel, but i dont want to ruin our friendship or make him mad. he is so sweet and laid back but i still don't know how to approach this. ....please help! thanks!!
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Epiphany Epiphany | 5 days ago
Tell him! If it's meant to be, that girl he's known for 2 months won't matter. But if you've been waiting so long, he might not know. Boys are generally clueless (no offence guys :] ) So really, drop hints. Before you just come right out with it, make sure you flirt a bit more. Be around him more, etc. And then...well, let him know. You can just tell him up front or write a letter, but in person is better. You never know until you try :)
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