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Why are some guys still too shy to approach you even when they know you like them?

Why are some guys still too shy to approach you even when they know you like them? Topic: How to write a note on facebook
May 22, 2019 / By Gwen
Question: I like this guy. He seems pretty nervous/shy around me. I see him around other people and he seems fine, but around me he seems tense, less talkative, messing with his hair and cheeks turn more pink. When we only pass in the hall, he seems really happy to see me and says hi. Last month we went to the movies together and both agreed to hang out after the 2nd semester started. On the last day of the semester, he said to me in the hall, "first semester is over. Its the new semester" I think he was hinting that he wants to hang out again. The next day he messaged me on Facebook asking, "what did you want to talk about?" I have no idea how he knew i wanted to talk to him. So i confessed how i felt about him and mentioned i wanted to hang out again soon. But he got his computer taken away so he never seen the message yet... Me being shy too, i wrote what i sent in a note and gave it to him. I mentioned how i like him, want to hang out and that i hope we talk soon. He had this huge grin after i handed it to him. That was last week, he hasn't said anything about the note. But he still looks super happy to see me in the halls, smiles and says hi. Even nods sometimes. I was hoping giving him that note he would come out of his shell a little and give him courage to actually talk to me at school. Why are some shy guys still too shy to approach the girl even after they know she likes him???
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Dianna Dianna | 6 days ago
Haha :) I think I know what's happening. Sometimes, when a shy guy is told that somebody likes him, especially the girl he's into, he'll be EVEN MORE nervous about it than before. Chances are, he's running scenarios through his head every day about how he plans on telling you how he feels :) The nervousness is all part of the excitement! Be patient with him, and if it seems like it's taking a while, don't be shy to approach him and talk to him face-to-face. I'm sure it'll be a big relief for him. If you're comfortable with this idea, you could even come straight out with the question and ask him how he feels about you :) But don't be pushy or pressure him about it. Ask him cheerfully and be supportive if he seems nervous. Good luck!
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Dianna Originally Answered: Guys: is it weird when girls approach you?
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Dianna Originally Answered: Guys: is it weird when girls approach you?
Well you won't have any chance if you never try. I like it girls approach even if I'm not interested
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Hm it might just be a tad it weird, just ask him a question and make subtle eye contact, good luck :)

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