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I love her but she'll only love me as a friend?

I love her but she'll only love me as a friend? Topic: How to write amazing love letters
July 18, 2019 / By Fay
Question: I'm 16 years old, and....my entire existence, I haven't really gotten the attention I craved for....the only attention I really ever got was bullying, teased, the butt of all jokes...people dismissing me as "weird". So often times, I'd sit alone by myself..I thought it was just a phase associated with this stupid depression that I still have but it wasn't.. I enjoy playing tricks on people. I enjoy drama, and I enjoy destruction..Chaos....and death at certain times. Don't get me wrong. I actually have SOME remorse for the people out there but I don't know why I'm like this...that I barely have any remorse that someone was just shot or something. I've been writing in my journal for a while now all about my depression, my "love" life, my "love" (who will NEVER love me for more than just a "best friend"). Unfortunately, I'm too blinded and deep into her and I'll stick to loving her..even if I wait for eternity....I only want her. She is the one who I want. She is basically the only thing that shows me that heaven might exist out there. She brights up my life...my day...my entire existence. She probably has a bf or so I've heard. We've texted and she usually does the texting first and we text for like a long time. About 7 hours or more. I'm not sure if she has a bf. Even when I'm positive about an outcome..the opposite comes out and destroys me and just basically takes me more and more into the negative way so now I'm 100% sure she has a bf even though I've never seen him, nor she has ever talked about him, even though still talks to me for hours and hours. It's ALWAYS bad for me except the days when I have my days. You know what they say.."Every dog has their day." I AM the dog. It's not infatuation. It's unrequited love. I KNOW exactly what I'm feeling. I've dealt with infatuation in my life back when I was around 13-14 and I'll tell you it wasn't pretty. And for those telling me to tell her..there's no point. I told her like a month ago while she was with her ex bf and she was like "I don't really know what to say..." And then I'm like "I understand..." And she's like "I don't wanna ruin our friendship" Just another way of saying: "Sorry. I don't like you. You suck. You're a weirdo and freak. Go burn loser." What I also wrote about her in a journal I've kept for ages writing about life, love, etc "I want her..and only her. I'm too deep for ___. I will never love another girl but her. When I talk to you it really does feel like I'm in heaven. I feel a tingling sensation in my stomach. My heart beats like it's getting crushed within a rock. Heaven does exist...why? It's when I talk to her. She brightens up my day and heals a horrible life. When we get into big arguments (which is rarely) hope is all lost. The sky darkens..... The soil turns into ash and you can feel the intense heat...______ is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my life life. Maybe not to you but to me...she's amazing. I love you." :/ I also wrote: "Love is all I want. I look in the hallways of my school looking at couples which dismantles me. Having a great time...having someone to call them love. Having someone to cuddle with and most importantly having someone to call a FRIEND." I also wrote what I really do like about her and tell her my true feelings but then from a love letter it turned into a raging low self esteem loser. Saying how I'm not good for her nor how she'll always only think of me as a friend and how I'm ugly, weird looking and will go no where in life.
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Corona Corona | 8 days ago
Can i just say that you seem like an Amazing writer :] I know this might sound hard but don't care what people think of you. In the end we are all the same, and no one can change that It sound to me that this girl has definitely stolen your heart but think of this, if she doesn't want go to out with you. It's obviously that shes not the one. Fate is horrible at times but if she doesn't feel the same way for you then shes not your soul mate. But trust me when i say this there IS someone for you out there. and there ARE lots of good qualities about everyone you are not an exception to this. COntinue doing things that make you feel good, It's your life you choose which path you want to take (sorry i know it's cheesy) But please don't give up yet. I wish you the best ella x :]
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Corona Originally Answered: Im in love with my best friend?
a relationship shouldn't ruin a friendship. if you're in love w/ your best friend, then tell her how you feel. it's better to take risks than to play it safe!

Beth Beth
All I can tell you right now is that I'm really sorry. I think you should be glad that you have such a great friend like her, even if it may never be something more, you can always count on her to be there for you and you should know that there is someone out there for you! and someday you'll have a great life and feel like this and someone will feel like that back, just hold in there (:
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Aggi Aggi
I understand your feelings about unrequited love. I also met someone who could make the whole difference to how I feel just when he talked to me. I thought there's some connection between us, I felt like something's going on between me and him but the strangest thing is that I was the only one who felt that way. It's hard to comprehend but this is the sad truth of one-sided love. If we can't get what we want, we get hurt. It's better to move on before it causes too much damage. You can't know if it's not worth waiting for things to change but she told you how she feels, the sooner you part with your illusion, the better.
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Tiernan Tiernan
Maybe she really doesn't want to ruin your friendship. I fell in love with my best friend, and he eventually fell in love with me and we pursued a romantic relationship. Things fell apart later though, for reasons I'm not really willing to say here, and we never spoke again. And I missed the contact I had with him... our friendship. I haven't spoken to him for years now, but you know what? Although I thought that I could NEVER love anyone again, I found someone else - someone who I loved just as much as I love him. Time eases our pain. Humans heal. And one day you'll find someone you love just as much as this girl - maybe even more - who loves you back... and it'll feel so much better than this, and you'll never feel anxious around her because you have feelings for her that aren't returned. In the end, it will all work out for the better. I'm sounding really melodramatic and cliche, I know.... and I'm sorry if I come off as if I'm blowing your feelings for this girl away.
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Rain Rain
that is so sweet! you should tell her all that!!! and if she doesnt like you back then shes not the one and cant see how good you are. and you shouldnt be so hard on yourself. dont care what other people think and just do stuff. be happy itll make everything more enjoyable. tell the girl all that and try to show her that you really care about her. good luck :)
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Rain Originally Answered: I'm in love with my best friend?
"its better to do something stupid than to do nothing at all" you know and I know and everyone knows that if you don't tell her your going to regret it, worse case scenario is she'll be flattered, life-long friends won't let their friendship die over an awkward moment.

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